I'm a very average-looking woman. My husband told me while we were dating that it was my "quiet-ness" that attracted him. Not that I didn't talk, but I have a soft voice and I don't say anything unless I feel it's worth saying. Idle chatter is a turn-off to me.

Anyone entering into a relationship should read The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. It's even useful for relationships with your parents, children and siblings.